“Soon, I enjoyed the feeling that comes with becoming a better person.”
Peaks and Valleys by Spencer Johnson, M.D. (Page 54)
This is one of the books we are reading at work and this sentence struck me. I can spent countless hours beating myself up over mistakes; things I should have done and said differently. But, I did not spend time feeling the feeling of betterment. When I read that sentence I just sat and reflected on what I came through. In the chaos of the memories, I sat in the center, calm.
There is an assurance that seemed elusive before. I can feel it as a solid base beat – my heart. I had not noticed that within my heart lies certainty. I have worked hard at learning the messages from my center (as if it were separate from me). There was this noise from dependencies, those were the ribbons crowding out the air around my beat.
The things that lay with Truth are subtle, soft, loving.
The things that lay with deception are loud, obnoxious, indifferent.
At one recent meeting the host said “Consistency wins”. I thought “If someone is great at being an ass, and they do this every day then then are: “Consistently winning at being at ass, everyday”.”
Seriously, think about it: Whatever you are thinking, who we/I/you are emulating, what we are saying, what we are not doing, we are consistently winning at being that person.
Learning the feeling the comes from becoming better is crucial, because what I am really talking about is Faith. That word is smoke and mirrors. I know I am sitting in the hands of something Greater, and the feeling that comes with this knowledge is deep and steady. I have found the courage to strive for better.
I’m getting to know the feeling that comes from becoming a better person. Because life is a bag of tricks and I need Faith.